Why should you buy and use sex toys? How do you choose the right toy for you and your lover? Read on to get answers to both of these questions.
Why some couples buy sex toys
These are the reasons why people use sex toys-
(a) Sex toys can increase the sex life of you and your partner. They can be used during foreplay or intercourse or both.
(b) They can also be used as a temporary substitute for pleasure when you or your partner/lover is unable to have sex, such as during late pregnancy, after childbirth, during separation or divorce.
(c) They can provide additional stimulation during masturbation.
(d) Toys can help you and your partner/lover reach certain parts of the body, such as anal toys, that are not easily touched by either of you.
(e) They can help you if your woman needs to take longer than usual to reach orgasm or to help you focus on pleasing her in certain ways. Certain sexual positions may make it difficult to finger her during oral sex, in which case you can use a vibrator to stimulate her erogenous zones.
(f) Orgasms can help you release stress and tension, which is a great way to start the day or a "good sedative" to help you fall asleep.
How sex toys can help women
Many women are unable to pass an orgasm due to insufficient clitoral stimulation. Toys such as electric vibrators can provide the right amount and intensity of stimulation needed to help her reach orgasm quickly. Some newer models of vibrators can be adjusted in intensity to suit personal preference and sensitivity.
Some women use sex toys to enrich their experience and to help them achieve multiple orgasms. Some dildos/vibrators have a 3-in-1 function that provides vaginal penetration, clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation at the same time.
Some women with orgasm difficulties need longer stimulation times (than most men can handle) to reach orgasm. In such cases, sex toys can provide men with a temporary break without interrupting stimulation, thus buying them more time to increase the chances of female orgasm.
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Vibrating toys can help men reach orgasm when they lean against the man's shaft, anus, the area between the anus and testicles, and testicles. Some men who suffer from erectile dysfunction use them (erection pumps, cocksucking rings) to help with erections. Not only that, some dual-purpose vibrators can also help them overcome performance anxiety.
Examples include cock ring cum vibrator toys and ticklers which can stimulate both you and your lover at the same time and at the same time. There are even toys that extend the length of the penis, which I personally don't think is very helpful in bringing women to orgasm. This is because the most sensitive part of a woman's body is located in the area around the entrance to the vagina and is about 2 inches deep in the woman's body, the g-spot. Therefore, artificially extending the length of the male organ will not increase a woman's sexual pleasure, and the violent thrusts may even damage her cervix.
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Before buying any sex toy for yourself and your lover, you should consider who will be using the toy, what the toy will be used for, how the toy will look and how much it will cost. If you are new to sex toys, it is best to discuss this with your lover to reach a mutual decision.
The type of stimulation you prefer (light/indirect, medium/direct) is an important factor to consider when obtaining a sex toy. For women who are looking for a dildo, they should ask themselves if they want the toy to look exactly like a penis, or if it is unnecessary.
Quality will vary with price, and you need to ask yourself how much you are willing to spend. If you are not sure about a particular type of toy, try using a lower priced toy to see if you like it and if it fits, you can upgrade to a higher quality toy later.
Sex toys should be considered a side dish, not a main course. They only take care of the mechanical aspects of making love. When having intercourse, you cannot ignore the more emotionally important aspects. In the long run, over-reliance or over-emphasis on sex toys can damage the emotional bond with your partner, and in the long run, it can cause you and your partner to fall apart mentally.